On Stress About Children
TOP 8 STRESSORS FOR CHILDREN:
- Stressed-out parents! Yes, PARENTS stressed can rub off on kids, even when you the parents think they are hiding this.
- Morning mania! A chaotic AM routine (or lack of routine) can kick kids’ stress into high gear.
- Not making the cut! When kids don’t make the team or get the party invite, it can be crushing.
- Peer pressure and bullying! Half the battle is knowing there’s a problem.
- Over-scheduling! A hyper-schedule of music, dance, soccer and language lessons can overwhelm kids and parents alike.
- Moving and changing schools! Any kind of change can spark stress.
- Parents fighting! All couples argue, but you can dial down the anxiety.
- New sibling or step-parent and step-siblings! Expanding the family can put a strain on kids.
The following signs may suggest that your toddler is feeling stressed:
- Change in regular sleep and eating habits
- Change in emotions (showing signs of being sad, clingy, withdrawn, or angry)
- Increase in crying or tantrums
- Nightmares and fears at bedtime
- Physical ailments, such as headaches or stomach aches
- Anxious tics, coughs, or body movements
- Frequent reliance on habits such as hair chewing or thumb-sucking
- Change in bowel movements
Although “these symptoms don’t always indicate stress, they could be related to misbehavior, habits or growth.
If a child’s behavior worsens, it could be a sign of something more and may need professional advice.